Raising Kids in a Consumerist World

~ Carrie Schwab Pomerantz ~
Call me old-fashioned, but lessons like the work ethic, financial responsibility, delayed gratification, and charity are, to my mind, just as vital as knowing about balancing your checkbook, portfolio diversification, and the ins and outs of 401(k) plans.
In an affluent society that seems more determined than ever to get more — more wealth, more possessions, and more of the status that seems to come with those commodities — values and virtues are more important than ever. Teaching your kids the ABCs of money management is crucial, but sharing your good money values can help make your hard work stick.
I probably don’t need to convince you that values are important. Instead, my goal is to help you see how financial values can be taught, and that — whether you’re conscious of it or not — you’re passing your own values to your children through your words, behavior, and actions.
The Example You Set
I’m a big believer in giving kids direct, hands-on experience with money. Give them an allowance. Teach them to save. When they’re old enough, encourage them to work part-time. All these lessons will help your kids learn to use, accumulate, and earn money.
But remember this: They’re also learning by example — your example. They watch you spend money every single day. They hear how you talk about work and investing. The way you deal with personal finance may be the single biggest factor in shaping their attitudes toward money. This does not, of course, mean you have to change the way you spend, earn, save, or invest. But it does mean you need to be aware of the example you set.
And as a parent, you’re the ideal teacher for all kinds of lessons about finances and the values associated with them. It starts with the little things, like encouraging them to save part of their allowance. But every day is filled with opportunities to impart practical and philosophical lessons about money and values.
   
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